Dear Abby,
I never thought I would find myself writing to you, but I am at a loss for what to do about a situation that has been bothering me.
Recently, I have noticed that a married woman in our social circle has developed a habit of hugging my husband every time she sees him. While I understand that hugs are often seen as innocent gestures, the frequency and intensity of these interactions have started to make me uncomfortable.
I trust my husband completely, and I know he sees this woman purely as a friend. However, the constant hugging has made me question the boundaries of their relationship. Should I address this issue with my husband or confront the woman directly? I don’t want to cause any unnecessary tension, but I also want to ensure that our boundaries as a married couple are respected.
Any advice or suggestions on how to approach this situation would be greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Concerned Wife
Dear Abby,
I am writing to seek advice on a delicate situation involving my husband and a married woman in our social circle. Every time this woman sees my husband, she hugs him tightly, often lingering in the embrace longer than necessary. It makes me uncomfortable and has become a topic of tension between my husband and me.
I trust my husband completely, and I don’t believe there is anything more than friendship between them. However, the physical affection this woman displays towards him is making me question her intentions. It seems inappropriate and disrespectful to our marriage.
I have tried discussing this issue with my husband, and he assures me that there is nothing going on between them. He claims that the woman is simply a touchy-feely person with everyone, regardless of gender. While I want to believe him, I can’t help but feel uneasy about the situation.
I am unsure how to handle this without causing unnecessary drama or strain on our friendships. Confronting the woman directly seems confrontational, and I don’t want to damage the dynamics within our social circle. At the same time, I don’t want to continue feeling uncomfortable whenever we encounter her.
Abby, I am seeking your guidance on how to address this issue appropriately and find a resolution that respects everyone’s feelings. I want to maintain a harmonious relationship with my husband and our friends, but I also need to protect my own emotional well-being. Any advice you could provide would be greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Concerned Wife